Stop Visiting Your Unmarried Pastors At Home

Please tell girls to stop going into ungodly relationships even with presidents/excos of campus fellowships. A good number of th...

Please tell girls to stop going into ungodly relationships even with presidents/excos of campus fellowships. A good number of them have a habit of breaking the heart of many girls. Ask anyone in the university, it’s so rampant! A friend of mine got herself into trouble thinking because the guy was a spiritual fellowship president she would be safe with him. She got into a relationship with him, he toyed with her body and at the end of the day, he told her his spiritual parents said he can’t marry her. They also insulted her such that she is still broken till date. May God continue to bless you ma!

Dear Mummy Temilolu,

I am in second year in the university and I’m dating a guy who is a pastor in our school church. However, this guy likes to touch me and I’m not comfortable with that! I’m a virgin rooted in a godly home and in my beliefs as well. I visited him at home one day then all of a sudden he began touching me. He practically played with my body and did what I shouldn’t even mention. I was so shocked even at the way my body responded, he then told me to pull off my cloth but I strongly refused. I still find it hard to believe I allowed him that much access even though there was no sexual intercourse as I pushed him away when he was charging towards me. I left immediately but this has really been bothering me. I have always detested smooching and all of that but all of a sudden I’m beginning to crave it! I don’t know what is wrong! I can’t just let go of the feeling of regret for allowing what happened that day and I keep praying God should forgive me. I broke up with the guy. Please advise me ma. I’m really bothered!

Esther

Dear Esther,

You should be more than thankful to God, your pastor didn’t rape you! There are many girls out there who were raped and even aborted pregnancies for some so-called pastors. Do you think everyone that calls himself a pastor is truly called by God? Or do you think they are all in control of their flesh or in sync with God? If you know you really want to remain chaste till your wedding night then you must NEVER stay behind closed doors with any man you have strong feelings for! If he had raped you, I doubt the trauma would even make you speak out! What a waste that would have been for a man whom I suspect would end up not marrying you? May the mighty hand of God be upon you and guide your steps in Jesus name! You must be extra cautious and prayerful if you really want to preserve your virginity till your wedding night! Please google-search- “Girls, you can pass through the university and graduate as a virgin!” And “Girls,  how to pass through the university and graduate as a virgin.” About 10 articles in all!

On the other hand, it would interest you to know there are more occult masters parading themselves as pastors than the genuinely-called! And even those called by God can be used by the devil too! A good number of ladies have confessed how a strange spirit came over them in one particular church such that whenever they saw their pastor, they’d be sexually-aroused till he slept with them! This same pastor hypnotised three of his choristers and raped them countless times and even in their dreams! Yet, they couldn’t speak out until he emptied them of  virtues- two of them even aborted pregnancies for him! I cringe when I see the way the general public idolises this guy!

In recent times, one of the most beautiful women in Nigeria with a noble pedigree got involved with one G.O. and anytime I saw her all over this man, I couldn’t but wonder what the attraction was. There was something wrong somewhere! And I knew God would eventually help her out! When she got out, not only was she booed and jeered at by the same women who goaded her on, she was accused  chasing his wife away and running after the man because of his money. Imagine a wealthy woman of a noble birth-an aristocrat by all standards! I felt scandalised on her behalf because she was lied against and pray God glorifies her!

Parents, please beg your girls to stop looking for pastors up and down! Don’t let them dash away what should announce them in the world some day and give you a life you can never dream of! More and more destiny devourers are arising daily! Many victims have been sucked dry through sexual intercourse- no jobs, no money, no suitors etc. May  daughters not be turned to spiritual imbeciles!

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